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                            The Way to Healing!

            The miraculously designed human body is a mysterious combination of the flesh, spirit, mind and emotions. The power to heal is also built into the system by the creator. Modern medicine and other healthy habits enable the healing power of the body to heal  when  stricken with disease. When this internal power is gone, life stops. So the question in the healing process is: How to enable the healing power of the body to continue to work in sickness?

 1 Faith and healing. Modern medicine now recognizes relevance of faith in the healing process. The first step is to believe that  everything is possible with God. An awareness of God’s presence is a powerful component in acceptance of the self, the circumstances, the nature of illness, and to experience an inner calm. The God-given healing power built into the system enables the healing to occur  when medical interventions are used. The underlying belief to this approach is that God is the healer. Jesus’ ministry is an example of this reality, as all kinds of illness vanished through faith application. Divine healing involves a right relationship with God our maker, our  sustainer and our hope.

 2. Trust in a living God gives the person hope, and therefore a strong will to live. The person develops a positive attitude which affirms life in spite of the severity of pain. Believe that God’s love is always the same whether the person is ill or in good health. His love always sustains us in all situations in life. This power of healing is available wherever it is experienced– hospital, nursing home, church, community,  family and friends. Healing and recovery is quicker for those who experience a loving relationship. Psychologists and family therapists tell us that talking about the problems with good friends eases the pain and brings about emotional healing. In Proverbs 11:14 we read In an abundance of counselors, there is safety. In other words, listen to others who care for you. The inner healing of the mind and emotions is basic to the on-going healing of an ailing  body. Interacting with pets also has a calming effect. Love and faith help us to look beyond the present problems, and  visualize a healthy and positive outlook. The passion of love brings positive emotions of “elation” and hope. The body is created to do physical work which strengthens the muscles and burn more calories to give energy to the body. Therefore engaging in moderate physical exercise is very important.

 3. Think “wholeness” instead of separate units like body, mind and spirit. This concept helps us to be partners in the healing process.  Healing requires our active partnership. We all wish that we have a miraculous healing so that we don’t have to go through the routine of maintaining our health. The design of the body is such  that we  experience healing throughout our lives. Every time it happens, it is a miracle. Therefore let us take courage and feel good about ourselves that we can be active partners in managing our health. All that we need to do is to combine and put to work all the ingredients – faith in a loving God, prayer, meditation, healthy eating habits, moderate exercise,  and medical interventions when needed, and a positive, uplifting attitude towards life. The responsibility  to take charge of life and health is given to each one of us. No one else can take care of it for any one else. This is a God-given responsibility to each one of us whether we like it or not. And therefore the body must not be abused with drugs, alcohol and other medications that override the normal and creative functions of the body. Those who are victims of drug abuse or relationship abuse need to work through their anger and hatred in order to move on and feel the healing touch in their bodies and souls. Healing involves the whole person.

 4. The miracle of human life is that every one of us has a second chance, and some times a few more. A person cannot experience “wholeness” as long as that person continues to stay put in the past. A complete acceptance of the past helps to receive forgiveness to the self and those who caused the pain. Every person is different. Thank God we are all different and special. You are you, and don’t you ever feel sorry for yourself. Thank God for your life.  The people who move forward in their lives are those who know the God-given power of “acceptance and forgiveness.” They are divine qualities and we need to apply them in order to receive “wholeness” and quality of life.

 5. We need to understand healing comes in many different ways. There is no one single and miraculous way to be healed. We also need to remember that there is nothing sinful in being sick. But it is sinful if we decide to stay sick without becoming active partners in the healing process. I have seen many people giving excuses for not doing something towards their own healing. They put the blame on lack of money, or on families, friends, or whoever they can blame. The formula that works is this: I must be an active partner in taking care of  my own health. We need to exercise all the options that are available to us in order to experience healing. Sometimes miraculous healing happens, more than we expect. Thank God. Other times, much may not happen. And yet, always remember that   one or more of the  following brings healing:

 a. Remission of illness.
b. Honest acceptance of the illness.
c. Restoration of relationships.
d. Getting rid of anger and hatred.
e  A life of thankfulness.
f. Living with positive outlook.
g. Helping others in their trouble and
                 in their needs.
h. An appreciation of life.
i.  Ability to draw strength from family
     relationships.
j. Peaceful death.
                       Enjoy Wholeness
                     
Wisdom we can use

I am the Lord, the one who heals you.    Exodus 15:26
                               

Do not be wise in your own eyes, fear the Lord and shun evil. This will bring health to your body and nourishment to your bones – Proverbs 3:7-8

 Be careful how you think; your life is shaped by your thoughts. – Proverbs 4:23

 So then, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, so that you will be healed.  James 5:16

 A strong positive mental attitude will create more miracles than any  other   drug                                                                                       - Patricia Neal.

You have to do your own growing no matter how tall your grand father was –
                                                                              
Abraham Lincoln

 And, in the end, it’s not the years in your life that count, it’s the life in our years –   Abraham Lincoln

   Courage does not always roar. Sometime it is a quiet voice at the end of a day saying “I will try again tomorrow.”
Anonymous

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